Sex for the first time is daunting for anyone, even the most confident people among us. And that's because so much emphasis is put on the skill needed to be a great lover. Aside from that, we also tend to feel insecure taking our clothes off for the first time if we don't have what is considered the "ideal" physicality.
But if you're having sex with a woman, you have the added pressure of knowing that women are far more difficult to turn on in the first place. And then there's the big O, which every sexually active person hopes to achieve themselves and give their partner. Unfortunately, it's not always easy for a woman to orgasm because vaginas are just too anatomically complex for their own good...
However, hopefully, these tips will give you a helping hand if you're about to have your first time with a woman.
1. Sex is intuitive
Now we could give you all the tips in the world but the thing is sex is still primarily intuitive. And while you may feel like a fish out of water when you're doing it for the first time, once you're in the moment just try to go with the flow.
Yes, there'll be awkward moments and there'll probably be one or two WTF moments but you'll get through it.
2. Never neglect the boobs
It's a truth universally acknowledged that boobs are awesome, but the last thing you should be doing is touching them awkwardly out of overexcitement.
And while some women don't really get much enjoyment out of having their breasts touched, many women do. I mean, they are one of the female body's primary erogenous zones given all the pleasurable nerve endings they contain.
So if you are going to touch them, start delicately, taking into consideration that breasts vary in sensitivity. Gently cup them, tracing your fingers around the areola and then kiss them.